All Women With High Self-Esteem or Low Self-Esteem Are Monsters, Guaranteed
Almost all Women either have Ultra High Inflated but Artificial Self-esteem, or they have Low Self-esteem, and sometimes paradoxically a mixture of the two.
Both however, are equally toxic in their own way.
Women who subscribe to a fixed position of their self-esteem or self-image, but are not relegated to a neutral position of it, are a toxic bunch of madness, because the thing is if they are in a relationship with you, everything will revolve around the madness relating to identity issues.
When her Self-Esteem is high, she will constantly feel entitled and demanding of you, and also nitpick about what she believes she deserves, and whether or not you are giving her what she thinks she deserves.
Women tend to also largely overestimate their own self-worth.
When her Self-Esteem is low, she will constantly feel the need to drag you down to be below her, either by diminishing your accomplishments, or she will be jealous if by chance you have one set of attractive features about you or abilities that she doesn't, and this will create constant turmoil inside of her.
Women with low Self-Esteem, will always pull the suspicion card too if you fall in love with them about "WHY ME THOUGH AND NOT OTHER GIRLS!?" and they will also be the types to accuse you of just choosing them as you would choose any other girl who gave you attention that comes along.
It is a pointless endeavor to try to prove to such Women why you like them or even what is unique about them, because for starters, they will never believe it or believe you, and secondly it will come across as lame and desperate, and even emasculate you in the process.
NEVER, EVER fall into the trap of feeling the need to justify or explain your love for a girl if you happen to like one, or if things ever progress to getting more serious. DO NOT EVER DO IT, TRUST ME.
It will become a trap for you.
Either you both just automatically dance to the tune of your energies from the get-go without giving any thought to it because the attraction is on the same wavelength, or it's not there whatsoever.
Most Women do not understand Love except the Love for Money and the Love for what you can do for them.
The important point to drive home here though, is that Women who have "Fixed" Self-Esteem as I call it (High or Low), lack a fluidity about them that permits a Man to establish Dominance and Possession of the Woman.
Therefore, you can never have any kind of intimate connection with her, and nothing will be permitted to develop in any sort of way that it is supposed to, and the relationship will always be like walking on egg shells with constant suspicious and doubts.
For example, it is even dangerous and non-productive to alert a Female with High or Low Self Esteem that she is beautiful, to where it "may" present a possible productive effect if she is Neutral in her Self-Esteem.
The problem is that most Men who tend to compliment Women - and I highly advise against it unless things are much more personal already - fail to recognize how the compliments will come across, and do not think about being productive with it.
Most Men who give compliments do not do so from the heart, but do so in order to try to win the courtship or approval of a Woman, and that is a really really bad / wrong thing to do.
I have very few times ever complimented Women in my life, and it's only ever as a reflex that if I have, that it comes out. Meaning that I don't go out of my way for it, but in these times, I have to even hold back this reflex and practice precision, because in most cases they do not deserve it, and you must not cast pearls before swine.
The thing is, you will probably rarely ever Meet Women in this world who are not either High or Low Esteem variations, or a combination of the two, and both are just as equally toxic and worthless, as it accounts for 99.9% of All Women.
Women who have either High or Low Self Esteem, always end up having such annoying personality traits which become defining factors about the relationship you have with them, and you will find that you will always be criticized not on just what you do, but what you don't do.
And when I say what you "don't do" or "don't say", I'm not talking about being lazy or incompetent.
I'm talking about things like being accused of not encouraging a girl in her career, or not wishing her a "Happy International Woman's Day" or not responding quickly enough to a text message.
A Proper Women, if such a unicorn exists, must at all times be quite uncertain of where she stands in her self-perception, and depend on the Man to constantly reinforce it at all times.
Anything less, be prepared for a lifetime of ultimate misery with some useless cunt.
Many Men lack the forward-thinking skills to recognize these traits early on, but the Self-Esteem condition of the Woman will absolutely become the be-all, end-all defining factor of your Relationship or Marriage to her, and you will be expected to serve the demands of those Self-Esteen issues at every whim, and become a slave.
When the girl's Esteem is neutral, you are dealing with a freshly laid pile of sand that can be molded to your liking.
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