Encouraging Men To Fight For Their Right To Masculinity
However, one thing that is without argument, is that Men of Older Generations, and particularly the Baby Boomers, also can be rightfully blamed for never challenging the status quo on how Masculinity is defined, and also for not defending it and allowing it to become polluted and vilified the way it is today, where Most Men are relegated to the dustbin of society.
I want to reiterate that being a Provider or Protector for anyone but yourself, is a slave activity, and this is a modern phenomenon birthed out of the Development of Civilization, especially by Organized Religions and even more aggressively under Capitalism.
Slave Men are Providers and Protectors of others. Remember those words well.
For example, if we go back to the times before Capitalism, say under the Middle Ages, even most purchasing and marketing was aimed towards MEN.
This is absolutely no longer the case, and the major shift took place back in the 1970's.
Today almost all marketing, purchasing decisions and behavior is aimed towards Women, and Women are the ones executing it, and even more disgusting is the fact that many Wives control their Husbands Cheque books and Bank Accounts.
How can that possibly be MASCULINE of you!? It is not, it is effeminate! Real Men love their freedom, and that even means freedom over your finances, not with some cunt who puts a collar over you and handcuffs you in life.
The problem we face with Masculinity, is the fact that very few things in life or by Society now have anything to do with the Man himself, but only to do with external events or actions, things he does for others or for institutions.
The thing is, not every single Man needs to be a Soldier, or a Builder or Inventor, and in fact, most Men are not. It has historically been that way.
There will also be some Men who are related to Arts, Philosophy or Poetry and other things in life.
There are very different types of Men in this world.
It is unbelievable how much everything to do with Masculinity is always associated with Providing, Protecting, Playing Sports, Being Into Athletics, Your Ability To Fight (It's not a bad skill to have, but it shouldn't be worshiped). The necessity to fight or totally destroy others, should be viewed more as a necessity than having a celebration culture behind it.
At the same time, it doesn't mean that a Man here and there who is not able to fight is essentially "worthless", there are such Men, and eventually age and ability to fight will one day sooner or later subside in every Man at some point as well. This should be recognized.
But the worship culture behind these things, completely disregard Men who are not practicing violence, and especially Men who are not constantly pumping iron in the gym, or practicing boxing or the Martial Arts.
I'm not sure how it is now for Male students who demonstrate no desire to participate in Phys Ed, it probably is a lot easier now to get away with lack of interest in it, but decades ago, the Coach and usually a handful of your Male students (Men and Women were segregated), would even begin to mock or make jokes and rumors about you, and the Coach would even allow them to throw basketballs at you to shame you and bully you in other ways, and yet if you fought back to defend yourself, you were accused of being the "aggressor".
In fact, even if you did participate, it was no guarantee you wouldn't be bullied by the classmates or the Coach, because if you did not adhere to their strictly "Masculine" ideals, there would be people who try to interject in your participation in a way to make you fuck up or throw the ball at you and have the whole class laugh at you, usually right at your face.
So you were damned, even if you participated. This is how things are for Men.
Even not dressing "appropriately" for what was made mandatory for the gym / phys. ed classes was enough to get you shamed and bullied by the Coach and your Male peers, it was really ridiculous.
Even if you were able to "play" based on the way you dressed, they would not allow you too and you would be shamed.
School is not a Masculine place for Men anyways, it turns Men into pansies and Corporate Gophers.
Perhaps one of the most revolutionary changes one could make in their assessment of Gender, is to start viewing the Genders from a standpoint of not even Roles or even Procreation Matters or for the ability of him to raise offspring, but instead, what kind of actual qualities are associated with the Genders from the standpoint that the Gender you are born into, is a Container.
For Example, if a Woman has a healthy "intact" spirit along with body chemistry, she is supposed to be attracted to how Non-Chalant, Determined and Sure of himself that he is. That is absolutely masculine.
Sadly, these traits however, are "inverted" by NPC Women because the NPC Women only like these traits in so far as how they can afford her a certain lifestyle, especially if the Man is ambitious and a go-getter.
So it's not that she appreciates these traits in him as such because of it being his "character", but only for provisions and what she can get out of the deal.
Similarly, even a Man who enlists in the Military is only admired by Women because he fulfills some sort of role of actions towards provisions.
Not because he's some sort of "hero" or "brave warrior"! Let's not get silly.
My life experiences have taught me that the most cunning and dangerous types of Women in the world, are the ones who have a disdain and suspicion of "Idle Men", and I consider myself a mostly Idle Man, at least in terms of maintaining as much time to myself and reflection / recreation as possible, compared to being "On My Grind".
And even less so as I'm into my older years now. Fuck the Grind!
Eastern European Women and Oriential Women, are extremely suspicious of Idle Men, and they are the quickest to assume that if a Man is not "working" that he is somehow poor or going broke or that he needs to be "doing more" or they see his idle time as wasted time to where he could be "doing more with his life and chasing more money", and those are absolutely the type of Women who will give you hell! They also do not like you for who you are.
If they did like you, they would want to celebrate and enjoy all that special free time with you and be overjoyed about it.
However, back in the 1990's and also well before that, at least in America I can speak of, it was seen or met with FAR less suspicion then, compared to today, if a Man isn't always working and busy.
These days, I see that there is a massive shaming culture for Men who are ever idle, or even ordering 4 shots of Espresso in his coffee.
If you have any special tastes as a Man, you are shamed for it and thought of as "Less Than A Man", even by Fellow Men. In fact, I was just coffee-shamed again the other day.
But for me, it's like whatever. Why should I drink or eat things or live a life that doesn't please me, all to seem more "Masculine" to others?
Even down to the beers I drink, or because I drink cocktails with fruit in it, more so in the summer.
People are just ridiculous. What's crazier is that some of them actually do envy that you are enjoying things you do, and don't have the guts to try it or be seen doing something that is deemed not Manly or Acceptable by the status quo.
I think more than ever, that if a Man ever has anything to do with a Woman, that he should entirely comb through her entire personality and character to ensure that her reasoning behind why she likes things about him, are not rooted whatsoever in her Biological Urges or Desire to "Nest".
And what's disturbing, is I will tell you, when I was in High School many decades ago, I had a strong lingering fear / intuitive suspicion in me early on that Women actually largely chose or dated Men not based on his physical attraction but based on his perception of having power and ability to provide, even she found him to be disgusting or hated him as a person, and I really began to see how it played out especially as my peers got older and I saw whom they had children with or married.
It became very depressing to me, and I confirmed this dark truth of suspicion I had behind it, and I realized at that moment just how far we are from Natural Selection even decades ago. And now, it's even far, far worse.
Men who possess Emotions, are also largely under attack, and have been for a long time, under the World at large.
What Women do not understand about Men, is that Men by default, are indeed emotional, and have far stronger Emotions than Women do.
Men who don't have emotions, also don't have souls.
But unfortunately, Women, with their sick impulse to continue a specific genetic trait to win out over all the others in society, are breeding mostly with Criminals and Psychopaths and Men who lack souls.
They disregard all other Men.
Men's Emotions are so strong, that a Man is willing to believe something to the point where he will fight and kill to defend it.
Women, are not the same like that. They may pretend like they do, but they don't. They are actors.
But the raw truth is that the Modes of Industry, Banking, Commerce, Government and Society, are all trying to use multiple methods of weeding and destroying Emotional Men.
And believe me, I can tell you this personally even as it can be witnessed in the Trades.
The thing is, Emotional Men employ both Logic and Emotion to thought and calculations, and this does make the Man a slightly "slower" worker, but at the same time more attention is given to detail and craftsmanship.
Emotional Men, also experience physical pain to greater depths.
The Trades and many Industries, shun and shame these type of Men, and they want only Men who are strictly Logical thinkers and processors, or the so-called "Left-brained Men".
These type of Men do exist, and they are usually fast talkers / fast thinkers, and they are very impulsive and have almost no room for accepting anything that does not boil down to STRICTLY Logic, and in particular Logic only. They lack any imagination or any legroom to discuss or give breeding grounds for other interpretations or suggestions.
Some of the most Pragmatic and Strictly Logical Men like these usually work in Construction, Military, as Accountants, Lawyers, as Salesmen or something in Finance, and they are absolutely horrible people to deal with, and they are extremely cut-throat.
Not all of them are, but there is a large, deep-seated agenda to specifically employ those kinds over the ones who show emotional processing in their traits.
The Industries have been prioritizing them for Capitalism, since they are faster workers and good slaves.
I think one of the most important things a Man should also determine when a girl wants to sleep you, is also make sure you vett her extremely well in that her desire is not rooted in trying to have babies who look like you or for the survival of the species, but also that she is not sleeping with you because her "girlfriends" also like you and she wants to make them jealous.
You need to make sure the girl likes you for the Man you are, otherwise you will lose all of your Masculinity within your relations on any level with her, and will be relegated to be as a "tool".
THIS is the Real Masculinity Crisis we are in.
And it needs to learned that Men have no obligation to give or sacrifice for anyone else, until all of his own Needs and Life Happiness are first met.
You owe it to yourself and other Men to fight back at Society and to even Deprive Society, to bring Civilization to its knees, so long as your own Happiness is denied to you, and even with the ambition to burn the civilizatrion down to the ground with all its inhabitants, for as long as your Happiness is denied.
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